When we consider this, our thoughts may well find conflict and confusion, but let us slow down our panicking thoughts and fears, slowed it right down, and let’s do some digging and contemplation.  What actually is “Love,” and what actually is “Molestation?”  Well, it is sort of is exactly the same thing, but if in the wrong place, with the wrong people, then it is just plainly wrong, but if it is in the right place, with the correct person, and that is your spouse, then it is absolutely right and proper and good.  Wheat growing in a wheat field is always right, but wheat growing in your vege garden, or scattered like a weed along the roadside, well that is definitely wrong.  Giving your spouse an emotional and compassionate and lingering kiss and embrace, well that is good and right and correct and very proper, in a ‘Marriage Concept.’  But to grasp a friend, a colleague, a stranger and to then to give them that same and intense and emotional and compassionate and lingering kiss and embrace, well then that is the right thing, but it is in the wrong place and with the wrong person, then that makes this very wicked, and absolutely evil, that is definitely relationship destroying, it is wicked, it is ‘Molestation,’ or ‘Harassment,’ and you may well find yourself in a “Divorce Court,” or even in a “Criminal Court.”

But what makes the difference, there is nothing wrong with the “Act” or “Intention,” so what makes the ‘Act’ righteous or ‘Evil,’ for how can a simple thing go so perfectly right, or so terribly wrong.  If the ‘Action’ is not at fault, then what causes the ‘Act’ to swing from one extreme to the other.  Firstly; I guess it is ‘permission,’ do you actually have their permission, but secondly; it is this, do you actually have the ‘Rights’ or the ‘Ownership,’ that spousal rights, that ‘Marriage Contract,’ so are you sowing your wheat in your own fields, or are you scattering it along the ‘Highways and Byways,’ or even worse, scattering ‘Wild Oats,’ which in essence is nothing more the ‘Horse Food,’ ‘where it should not ought to be,’ and that is the meaning of “Fornication.”  The ‘Act,’ ‘thought,’ or the ‘Action,’ may well be wholesome, endearing, compassionate, showering affection, desire, appreciation, adoration, but if it is sown, showered, spread abroad in the wrong field, then wrong place, or wrong person, will always be wrong, evil, sinful, even criminal, and Judges will never call this ‘Act,’ right, and God will never call it right as well.      

Ezekiel 33:11 ERV “You must say to them, ‘The Lord God says: by my life, I swear that I don’t enjoy seeing people die – not even evil people!  I don’t want them to die.  I wanted them to come back to me.  I want them to change their lives so that they can really live.  So come back to me!  Stop doing bad things!  Why must you die, family of Israel?  God is pleading with us to come back to a saving and safe relationship, that ‘Marriage Concept, John 10:30 “I and my Father are One,” which is Marriage Language, and when in this “Oneness” it is always perfectly reflected in the term of “Love.”  But Satan, Sin and Wickedness, will always be viewed by God as “Molestation” of one of his Kids, Gods very own child, and God will always punish severely any and all who oppress, slander, harass or even to ‘Molest’ one of God’s Children.  Mark 9:42 “And whosoever shall offend one of these little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea.”

Quote; Cultivate the habit of speaking well of others.  Dwell upon the good qualities of those with whom you associate, and see as little as possible of their errors and failings.  When tempted to complain of what someone has said or done, praise something in that person’s life or character.  Cultivate thankfulness.  Praise God for His wonderful love in giving Christ to die for us.  It never pays to think of our grievances.  God calls upon us to think of his mercy and His matchless love, that we may be inspired with praise.  Earnest workers have no time for dwelling upon the faults of others.  We cannot afford to live on the husks of others’ faults or failings.  Evilspeaking is a twofold curse, falling more heavily upon the speaker than upon the hearer.  He who scatters the seeds of descension and strife reaps in his own soul the deadly fruits.  The very act of looking for evil in others develops evil in those who look.  By dwelling upon the faults of others, we are changed into the same image.  But by beholding Jesus, talking of His love and perfection of character, we become changed into His image.  By contemplating the lofty ideal He has placed before us, we shall be uplifted into a pure and Holy atmosphere, even the presence of God.  When we abide here, there goes forth from us light that irradiates all who are connected with us.  {MH 492}God “Loves Us,” that pure and Holy and uplifting, strengthening and ennobling kind, God always seeks your permission before he gets involved, or gets too close, God never pushes on in, God never forces his will upon anyone, controls and oppresses, I Corinthians 13:4-7 ERV “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily. Love does not remember wrongs done against it. Love is never happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth. Love never gives up on people. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits.”  Revelation 3:20 ERV “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in and eat with you. And you will eat with me.”  Remember that God will never molest you, he loves you oh so very deeply, he even sent his only begotten son to die in your place so that you could live with him, now that is real commitment, that is real love, at its fullest and purest, then will you respond in like, and earnestly love God?  Luke 10:27 ESV “And He [Jesus] answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbour as yourself.”  Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.”  God has loved you from before you even were, and that is “Real Love,” and that is “Real Commitment,” Question; “Does God Love or molest You?” to which the answer is always, “God is Love,” so God can only “Love you,” just give him the rights and permission, and then experience real and uplifting and wholesome, “Real Love.”